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ARDA Findings for Brazos County

Wednesday, May 16th, 2012

A fel­low pas­tor in the Acts 29 Net­work recently told me that the Asso­ci­a­tion of Reli­gion Data Archives (ARDA) pub­lished the find­ings from their exten­sive 2010 sur­vey. This infor­ma­tion is impor­tant to our church and to other like-minded churches because it helps us to be bet­ter mis­sion­ar­ies in our own cities.

Here are some high­lights from the Bra­zos County report, which includes both Col­lege Sta­tion and Bryan:

  • The pop­u­la­tion of our county grew from 152,415 in 2000 to 194,851 in 2010. Our com­mu­nity saw a 27.8% increase in pop­u­la­tion in those 10 years, mak­ing our county one of the fastest-growing in the entire U.S.
  • Out of the 194,851 peo­ple in our county, 114,654 had no church affil­i­a­tion what­so­ever. That means 3 out of every 5 peo­ple you meet in your neigh­bor­hood, at your work­place, or on cam­pus are unchurched. And the vast major­ity of unchurched men, women, and chil­dren are non-Christians.
  • Just 38,472 peo­ple attend an evan­gel­i­cal Chris­t­ian church in our area. Keep in mind that this num­ber is not reflec­tive of church mem­ber­ship, but reg­u­lar atten­dance. Fur­ther, this num­ber does not reveal how many of these peo­ple gen­uinely hope in Jesus Christ alone for salvation.
  • There are over 5,600 men, women, and chil­dren in our county who are Mus­lim, Jew­ish, Hindu, or a part of a cult. That’s twice as many peo­ple as attend the largest evan­gel­i­cal church in our area.

Friends, I think some of us have been lulled to sleep hang­ing out in our Chris­t­ian bub­bles. While we are called to love one another and dis­ci­ple one another, we are also called to make dis­ci­ples of those who do not believe the Good News of Jesus. This data reveals that over 60% of our com­mu­nity is either unchurched or sub­scribes to a non-Christian faith.

Matthew records this: “And Jesus went through­out all the cities and vil­lages, teach­ing in their syn­a­gogues and pro­claim­ing the gospel of the king­dom and heal­ing every dis­ease and every afflic­tion. When he saw the crowds, he had com­pas­sion for them, because they were harassed and help­less, like sheep with­out a shep­herd. Then he said to his dis­ci­ples, ‘The har­vest is plen­ti­ful but the labor­ers are few; there­fore pray earnestly to the Lord of the har­vest to send out labor­ers into his har­vest.’” (Matthew 9:35–38)

Let’s pray for God to send more labor­ers into the har­vest of Col­lege Sta­tion, Bryan, and the sur­round­ing area. But let’s also go to our neigh­bors with the Good News of Jesus, believ­ing that God intends to use our imper­fect wit­ness to the Gospel and our imper­fect lives to call oth­ers to repen­tance and faith in the per­fect Savior.

 

Preparing to Battle Unbelief

Friday, May 11th, 2012

This Sun­day night, we’ll begin a four-week series called “Bat­tling Unbe­lief.” This top­i­cal ser­mon series will take us through many dif­fer­ent pas­sages of Scrip­ture in each of the four weeks and is based on prin­ci­ples taught in the fifth chap­ter of Tim Chester’s book, You Can Change: God’s Tran­form­ing Power for Our Sin­ful Behav­ior and Neg­a­tive Emotions.

If you’d like to learn more about Tim, you can check out his web­site here. Not only is his site full of great con­tent, but it’s all writ­ten in real Eng­lish (not Amer­i­can Eng­lish). This means that he writes “pro­grammes” rather than “pro­grams” and things like that. What fun.

You cer­tainly don’t need to read You Can Change in order to greatly ben­e­fit from our upcom­ing series. The prin­ci­ples Tim iden­ti­fies in the book  come straight from Scrip­ture like the texts we’ll be preach­ing from each week. How­ever, if you’d like to read through the book, you’ll be even more pre­pared to bat­tle your own unbe­lief through faith in God and His Word. See you this weekend!

 

My Daughter’s Sweet Encouragement

Wednesday, May 9th, 2012

Our lit­tle girl, Tay­lor Joy, is about to be six years old. I remem­ber the day she was born like it was yes­ter­day. I’ll never for­get it, not just because it was the birth of our first child (though that cer­tainly makes it eas­ier to remem­ber), but because of what hap­pened the first time I held her.

Tay­lor Joy came into the world loudly express­ing her dis­plea­sure at her new sur­round­ings, quite angry about the abrupt change from womb to hos­pi­tal room. But then the coolest thing hap­pened. The nurse handed her to me, and I loudly whis­pered, “Tay­lor Joy!” just like I did when she was still in the womb. Right then,  she stopped cry­ing and opened her lit­tle eyes to look at me. It will always be one of the most spe­cial moments of my life.

While this may seem like a dad’s ploy to get you to read a story about his kid, bear with me and I’ll take this somewhere.

In the last few months, there has been a lot going on in life and min­istry. At many points, I’ve been very aware of my cir­cum­stances, my feel­ings, and my respon­si­bil­i­ties, but not very aware of God and His grace in my life. Maybe like you tend to do at times, I’ve tended to crowd out time that should be spent read­ing God’s Word, pray­ing, or sim­ply sit­ting silently and allow­ing God to speak, choos­ing instead to worry or to work harder.

I don’t know if this is some­thing that she per­ceived or not, but last week, Tay­lor Joy wrote me a note and stuck it to my desk for me to find later. It said this:

I Love You I want you too thenk abawt God

God used my lit­tle girl to remind me that not only does she love me and want me to think about God, but that God loves me and wants me to think about Him. Just like Tay­lor Joy was mainly aware of her dis­com­fort until I spoke to her that day in the hos­pi­tal room, I had been more aware of my dis­com­fort until God spoke to me through Tay­lor Joy and her note the other day. Now I have her note taped to my mon­i­tor so I can see it every day before I start work.

God loves you and He wants you to think about Him. I’ve read lots of the­o­log­i­cal works that said less with way, way more words.

What Termites Can Teach Us About Sin

Friday, April 27th, 2012

A few weeks ago, we cut down a large, dead tree in our back­yard. My friend Caleb and I stacked up a good amount of the wood for burn­ing and then we had the rest hauled off. A few days later, we started to notice that the new wood pile had a ton of insects all over it. In addi­tion to think­ing it was gross, we decided we had bet­ter have a pest con­trol ser­vice to come out and make sure there weren’t any ter­mites in the wood.

It turned out that the old tree did have some weird insects in it, but no ter­mites. Our house and wooden struc­tures in the back­yard were safe. At least for now.

The whole process got me think­ing that ter­mites actu­ally have quite a few things to teach us about sin:

First, ter­mites work from the inside-out.  They don’t start from the out­side and work their way in; they start on the inside and work their way out. Sim­i­larly, sin works inside of us long before its effects are observ­able on the out­side. A man strug­gles with the heart issue of lust long before he com­mits adul­tery; a woman strug­gles with the heart issue of con­tent­ment long before she maxes out the credit card at the mall.

Sec­ond, ter­mites don’t work alone. You never find one lit­tle ter­mite eat­ing away at your wood; you find a whole colony. Sin is like that. For exam­ple, some­one who lacks self-control in one area (like eat­ing) prob­a­bly strug­gles with self-control in many other areas, like spend­ing and leisure.

Third, ter­mites do not like to be exposed. Ter­mites can­not stand to be exposed to the air and heat of the out­doors, so they build tun­nels to get where they need to go. They like dark, quiet, cool places. In the same way, sin thrives in the dark. Once it is brought to the light through per­sonal con­fes­sion and prayer to God and con­fes­sion to other believ­ers and dealt with through Gospel-centered dis­ci­ple­ship, sin has trou­ble surviving.

Fourth and finally, when ter­mites and the dam­age they have caused are finally dis­cov­ered, it takes lots of work to get rid of them and to repair the dam­age they’ve caused. It’s not like you can spray a lit­tle bug spray on the ter­mites you see; you have to get an entire treat­ment for your home that costs thou­sands of dol­lars. You might also have to replace or repair key struc­tural com­po­nents of your home if the dam­age is sig­nif­i­cant. Sin, also, takes a lot of work to get rid of once it has taken root — and it is costly.

Ter­mites are gross. But they can also teach us many truths about sin. How can you learn from them?

The Growing Edge

Wednesday, April 18th, 2012

Every one of us has a grow­ing edge, an area of our lives that God is doing the most work on us at any given time. My grow­ing edge can be summed up the best by quot­ing James 1:19–20: “Know this, my beloved broth­ers: let every per­son be quick to hear, slow to  speak, and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not pro­duce the right­eous­ness of God.”

I tend to be slow to hear, quick to speak, and quick to become angry. I’m not a good lis­tener, I speak quickly (and often for a long time), and I get angry eas­ily. As I seek to fight these sins by apply­ing the truth of the Gospel to my life, I’ve been search­ing the Scrip­tures and pray­ing for God to help me change by His grace. I’m work­ing to under­stand and apply truths such as:

  • When I do not lis­ten well to oth­ers, I am not con­sid­er­ing them bet­ter than myself. Jesus, how­ever, took the form of a ser­vant and laid His life down for me (Phil. 2). Out of grat­i­tude for what He has done for me, I must ask for His help to lis­ten quickly and well.
  • When I am not slow to speak, I am believ­ing the lie that what I have to say is most nec­es­sary for oth­ers to hear. But men do not live on the bread of Allen’s words; they live on every word that comes from the mouth of God (Matt. 4). We are saved through faith in God and His Word; I can­not save anyone.
  • When I am not slow to become angry, I am believ­ing the lie that my anger will achieve right­eous­ness. Unfor­tu­nately, I am almost always seek­ing to prove my own right­eous­ness in a par­tic­u­lar sit­u­a­tion, and the Bible says that no one is right­eous but God (Ps. 14; Rom. 3). Thank­fully, Jesus was right­eous, and died for my unrighteousness.

I share this with you to help you under­stand how one jus­ti­fied sin­ner seeks to apply the Gospel to His own life. In addi­tion to med­i­tat­ing on Scrip­ture and apply­ing it in ways sim­i­lar to what I’ve shared above, I also have peo­ple who love me and who are com­mit­ted to my spir­i­tual growth serve me by let­ting me know when I’m not liv­ing out the com­mand of James 1:19–20. Since my wife and chil­dren tend to expe­ri­ence my slow­ness to hear, my quick­ness to speak, and my quick­ness to become angry the most, they pro­vide great account­abil­ity for me in these areas. I would encour­age you to sim­i­larly enlist your spouse and chil­dren or your room­mates to help you with your grow­ing edge. Those we live with see us most often as we really are, and see and expe­ri­ence the over­flow of our hearts.

What is your grow­ing edge? How can you fight sin by apply­ing the truth of the Gospel to your own life? Do you have oth­ers engaged in your own strug­gle for holi­ness? I hope you know what your grow­ing edge is, that you are fight­ing sin by the power and grace of God, and that oth­ers are stand­ing with you. If not, let me encour­age you to get plugged into one of our Life Groups and to join our church or another healthy church in our com­mu­nity. You can’t grow in holi­ness alone.

 

 

God-Honoring Worship is Offered in All of Life

Monday, April 16th, 2012

It’s Mon­day morn­ing — the start of another week. Whether you are a stu­dent, an employer, an employee, or a home­maker, you have a pile of things to do. Some of the tasks bring great joy, but many of them just sim­ply need to be done. Papers need to be writ­ten; paper­work needs to be filed; laun­dry needs to be done; dia­pers need to be changed. It’s hard to con­ceive of any of those things as worship. But what we do on a daily basis really can be offered to God as worship.

In Romans 12:1, we are told to offer our bod­ies as liv­ing sac­ri­fices, and that doing this is a spir­i­tual act of wor­ship. Well, if we are to offer our bod­ies as liv­ing sac­ri­fices, if we are to give our­selves fully to God and His work all the time, then that means we must wor­ship Him in and through our work.

Beza­lel, who is men­tioned in Exo­dus 31, was called to a spe­cific assign­ment —  he was to build the taber­na­cle and its fur­nish­ings. But he wasn’t called and then left to do the work on his own. Instead, God filled Beza­lel with His Holy Spirit. He placed other tal­ented men around him. And he gave both Beza­lel and the other men the nec­es­sary gifts to accom­plish the work to which God had called them.

Sim­i­larly, every Chris­t­ian — includ­ing you if you have received Christ through faith — is filled with the Holy Spirit. God has placed peo­ple in your life through the church to help you with your call­ing and to equip you for min­istry. And God has given you the nec­es­sary tal­ents and abil­i­ties to ful­fill your calling.

This week, I chal­lenge you to con­sider all of your work as wor­ship and to offer your work to God as an act of wor­ship. It’s much eas­ier to do that when we rec­og­nize that God hasn’t just given us a call­ing; He’s given us His Holy Spirit, His church, and gifts to accom­plish the work before us.

Jesus is Alive! Now What?

Monday, April 9th, 2012

Yes­ter­day you cel­e­brated the res­ur­rec­tion of Jesus from the dead. Per­haps for the very first time, you rec­og­nized that you deserved the wrath of God because of your sin and rebel­lion. You saw clearly that your good deeds could not make up for any of your sins, much less all of your sins. God opened your eyes to see the truth that Jesus alone could offer His life your place, and that He did so on the cross. You believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and through faith in Him, you are for­given and counted right­eous in God’s eyes.

But now what? What are you sup­posed to do today?

The Scrip­ture says that while Jesus died for you, He didn’t die for you indi­vid­u­ally. He died for His church, for all those who trust in Him. Through faith, you are a part of His church, which He describes as His body on the earth.

But that will all remain nice, neat the­ory unless you actu­ally get involved with the body of Christ. We encour­age you to join a local church — per­haps the one you attended yes­ter­day — where you can be bap­tized, where you’ll be taught to obey every­thing Jesus com­manded, and where you can join with oth­ers in mak­ing more dis­ci­ples of Jesus by pro­claim­ing the Good News you now believe.

If you’d like to learn more about the local church, I encour­age you to read our blog series Why Mem­ber­ship Mat­ters. You can also con­tact us if you have any spe­cific ques­tions we can help you with.

Should Christians Watch The Hunger Games?

Friday, March 30th, 2012

Unless you are liv­ing under a rock, you are aware that the long-anticipated movie adap­ta­tion of The Hunger Games hit the­aters last week­end. (Even if you are liv­ing under a rock, this was hard to miss.) Peo­ple have flocked to see this movie in record num­bers. It took in $155 mil­lion last week­end, which made it #1 for a non-sequel, and placed it just behind Harry Pot­ter and the Deathly Hal­lows: Part 2 ($169.2 mil­lion) and The Dark Knight ($158.4 mil­lion) for the high­est open­ing weekend ever.

Some of the peo­ple who went to see the movie in droves were col­lege stu­dents who are mem­bers of our church. Ear­lier this week, I had a leader email me to express con­cern over the movie’s con­tent (you can read a review here if you are unfa­mil­iar with the sto­ry­line) and ask­ing how to advise peo­ple think­ing about going to see the movie.

I responded by let­ting this leader know that The Hunger Games are a huge deal, on the level with Harry Pot­ter or Lord of the Rings. The books and movies will be read or seen by most peo­ple inside and out­side the church.  As a result, I said, it is essen­tial that we think through how to shep­herd peo­ple who will engage with The Hunger Games in a help­ful, bib­li­cal manner.

Some Chris­tians have a prob­lem with the con­tent of The Hunger Games. The prob­lem, in my opin­ion, isn’t the con­tent of The Hunger Games (or most other movies). Rather, the prob­lem is twofold:

1) Many Chris­tians enter­tain them­selves to death. Though we claim that we don’t have enough time for Bible study, prayer, dis­ci­ple­ship, or evan­ge­lism, we have plenty of time and money to read fic­tional nov­els or to go to the movie theater.

2) Many Chris­tians uncrit­i­cally devour what­ever Hol­ly­wood puts out. Very few believ­ers thought­fully engage the enter­tain­ment they con­sume. If they crit­i­cize movies like The Hunger Games at all, they merely crit­i­cize its artis­tic mer­its, not its theological ones.

Some well-meaning Chris­tians argue, “The Hunger Games fea­tures a lot of bad stuff, so we shouldn’t read the books or see the movies.” I would respond to that argu­ment in this way:

1) The Pas­sion of the Christ had bad stuff in it, both in terms of gore (it was one of the blood­i­est movies I’ve ever seen) and in terms of bad the­ol­ogy (the theme of Mary as co-redemptrix with Jesus was pretty clear). But most Chris­tians didn’t com­plain about either the gore or the unbib­li­cal the­ol­ogy. This argu­ment is sim­ply a plea for us to be consistent.

2) The Bible has bad stuff in it, and if many pas­sages are under­stood cor­rectly, they are far worse than any­thing The Hunger Games seems to depict.  I’ve been read­ing through the Book of Ezekiel and read chap­ter 23 ear­lier this week; you would only find the lan­guage God uses there in a porno­graphic novel.

So I don’t find the argu­ment that Chris­tians shouldn’t see  movies that have “bad stuff” in them very com­pelling. Obvi­ously, there is a line with enter­tain­ment, and I can’t see any profit from movies that fea­ture nudity or lit­tle more than bad lan­guage and vio­lence. But I don’t think that’s all The Hunger Games has to offer.

I encour­aged this leader to speak to the hearts of those con­sid­er­ing going to see The Hunger Games, and to do so by ask­ing good questions like:

1) Why do you want to go see The Hunger Games?

2) What do you know about the movie’s plot, con­tent, main mes­sage, and worldview?

3) How do you think that movie will tempt you to think about God, man, sin, and the work of Jesus? Do you think it will pro­mote a bib­li­cal view or an unbiblical view?

4) Do you think you’ll be able to watch that movie and love Christ more and encour­age oth­ers to love Christ more?

A thought­less Chris­t­ian might respond to those ques­tions by say­ing, “I dunno. It looked awe­some.” I would encour­age that per­son to do some research, then prayer­fully eval­u­ate whether going to see the movie is a good choice.

But a thought­ful Chris­t­ian might respond by not­ing that the major­ity of her church and com­mu­nity will be going to see the movie, and see­ing it her­self will help her engage with them more thought­fully. Fur­ther, she might say that she does under­stand the movie’s plot, con­tent, main mes­sage, and world­view by read­ing crit­i­cal reviews. More­over, she might under­stand that she will be tempted by the movie to believe that while peo­ple do bad things, peo­ple are basi­cally good and can con­jure up good from within them if they’ll try.  She might say that she knows it will pro­mote an unbib­li­cal world­view, but with prayer and the help of the Holy Spirit, she hopes to see those errors and reject them for the truth of God’s Word. Finally, she might respond that by view­ing the movie, she will be com­pelled to love Christ more because humanity’s deprav­ity and our inabil­ity to save our­selves from our­selves is so clearly displayed.

I believe Chris­tians can watch cer­tain movies with God-centered motives — even movies whose world­view and con­tent don’t exalt God and His Gospel. But as with all things, God is most inter­ested in the heart behind our actions. We can watch The Hunger Games with God-centered motives or man-centered motives. We’ll need the Word and the Spirit to dis­cern the difference.

 

My Favorite Relationship Resources

Friday, March 23rd, 2012

It’s spring­time, which means that Kendra and I are in full-tilt mode doing pre­mar­riage coun­sel­ing, con­duct­ing wed­dings, and work­ing with new­ly­weds. We love this part of pas­toral min­istry, and that’s good because in our con­text, it is a very big chunk of it.

Lately, I’ve been asked more and more often which resources I’d most highly rec­om­mend for cou­ples who are dat­ing, engaged, or mar­ried. That ques­tion largely depends on a num­ber of fac­tors, includ­ing the spir­i­tual matu­rity of the per­son ask­ing, the age of the per­son ask­ing, and whether that per­son is already in some kind of rela­tion­ship or not.

Hav­ing said all that, here are my favorite resources for each type of situation:

If You are Con­sid­er­ing a Dat­ing Rela­tion­ship or Already Dating

1. The Mean­ing of Mar­riage by Tim and Kathy Keller — surely I put this in the wrong cat­e­gory, right? Nope, I sure didn’t. This book by far does the best job of help­ing every per­son — whether mar­ried or sin­gle — under­stand the Bible’s teach­ing on mar­riage. And it is only when young men and women rightly under­stand what mar­riage is really all about that they are best equipped to make God-honoring choices in their dat­ing relationships.

2. Boy Meets Girl by Joshua Har­ris — until I read the Kellers’ book, this was the only book I rec­om­mended to young men and women think­ing about dat­ing rela­tion­ships. I would say read Tim and Kathy’s book first, pray and fast for a long time, then when you think you are about ready to start a dat­ing rela­tion­ship, read Josh’s book.

If You are Engaged to be Married

1. When Sin­ners Say ‘I Do’ by Dave Har­vey — Dave does an out­stand­ing job of apply­ing the Gospel to mar­riage by show­ing that every­thing in mar­riage has to do with what we believe about God and His work through Jesus. If we don’t under­stand the Gospel or how the Gospel applies to mar­riage, we can’t hope to have God-honoring (or for that mat­ter, very happy) marriages.

2. The Mean­ing of Mar­riage by Tim and Kathy Keller

If You are Married

1. When Sin­ners Say ‘I Do’ by Dave Har­vey — I would also rec­om­mend the Study Guide; this is the most imme­di­ately prac­ti­cal resource for mar­ried couples.

2. The Mean­ing of Mar­riage by Tim and Kathy Keller — I only put this sec­ond because he puts so much empha­sis on the big pic­ture of mar­riage. It is still essen­tial, but less imme­di­ately practical.

3. Sacred Mar­riage by Gary Thomas — I think this book is great for cou­ples who have been mar­ried for a while and have a strong Gospel foun­da­tion. It’s not that it isn’t as good as the other resources, it’s that I think Har­vey is more explicit on the Gospel and Tim and Kathy are more clear on what mar­riage is ulti­mately about. What I love about Gary’s book is that it hits on a lot of issues that aren’t cov­ered by either Har­vey or the Kellers.

There is a great new resource avail­able I haven’t yet read that may fit well into all three of these cat­e­gories, but espe­cially in the Engaged or Mar­ried cat­e­gories. Paul David Tripp just pub­lished a new book called, What Did You Expect? Redeem­ing the Real­i­ties of Mar­riage. This book hits on the same theme that Tim and Kathy do a great job of flesh­ing out in their book, The Mean­ing of Mar­riage, namely that west­ern Chris­tians have pretty much all the wrong ideas about what mar­riage really is and what to expect out of mar­riage. I haven’t read it yet, but I hope to in the near future.

Elements Classes Begin Tonight!

Tuesday, March 20th, 2012

Our Spring 2012 Ele­ments Classes begin tonight at 6:30pm! Here is a brief descrip­tion of each class:

Bib­li­cal The­ol­ogy (Bt) — this class will help you under­stand­ the Bible as the uni­fied story of God’s redemp­tive work on man’s behalf. We will look at sal­va­tion his­tory and learn how it informs the way we read and apply the Scriptures.

Sys­tem­atic The­ol­ogy (St) — this class will help you under­stand the Bible’s teach­ing on twenty of the most impor­tant doc­trines in Scrip­ture. This is a great class for believ­ers of all matu­rity lev­els, but espe­cially for those who are new to the­ol­ogy. We will exam­ine the nature and char­ac­ter of God, the Bible, the per­son and work of Christ, and many other top­ics each week.

What is the Gospel? — if you asked ten peo­ple on the street, “What is the Gospel?” you would likely get ten com­pletely dif­fer­ent answers. If you asked ten peo­ple in the church – you’d prob­a­bly still get ten com­pletely dif­fer­ent answers. In this class, we will explore what the Gospel is and is not and leave with a clearer under­stand­ing of how to apply it to our lives and the lives of others.

Even if you haven’t signed up, it’s not too late. Click here to sign-up! If you need to order a book, you won’t have it for tonight’s class, but that’s ok. We can order one for you or you can order a copy your­self and have it for next week’s class. Preschool care is avail­able for kids aged 0–4, and Kids’ Activ­i­ties are avail­able for chil­dren aged 5–12.

If you haven’t read through our blog series, “The­ol­ogy is for Every­one,” I’d encour­age you to do so as a primer for these classes. We hope to see you tonight at 6:30pm!