Fight Clubs
At New Life, we desire to see our members pressing toward spiritual maturity, becoming disciples who pursue holiness and respond in joyful obedience to Jesus. Toward that goal, we believe that it is essential, and beneficial for the entire body, that the men and women step up to the front lines. We have grown weary of “accountability groups.” Too often they simply become either legalistic exercises that attempt to earn for us the favor of God and our peers or serve to give us license to sin as long as we commiserate with other so-called strugglers on a regular basis. What we need is real fighting against sin and real faith in our Savior.
Inspired largely by Jonathan Dodson’s book titled, “Fight Clubs”, we suggest that every member join or begin a Fight Club in order to fight the fight of faith by trusting in the promises of God. As described in the book, “fight clubs are small, simple groups of 2–3 who meet regularly to help one another beat the flesh and believe in the promises of God…There are 3 rules of fight clubs: 1. Know your sin. 2. Fight your sin. 3. Trust your Savior.” You can read about the book and order a copy here.
If you are not in a Fight Club and are interested in joining one, please email Pastor Jason Kinnard.
Fight Clubs are comprised of two men or two women, ideally, with a maximum of three. Our efforts are to connect you to a peer of similar age and life stage. We ask that you commit to meet regularly as often as is feasible and respectful of each other’s time. Meeting times and places will be arranged by the members of each Fight Club.
Here are some general guidelines for Fight Clubs:
1. Even if you have already been meeting with a group that has functioned as your Fight Club, take the opportunity to begin afresh and establish the club purpose based on the “3 rules of fight clubs”. Talk about how often you want to meet and make serious efforts to do things together outside of your regular meetings. It is recommended that you read Dodson’s book to help grasp the vision for how these clubs should function.
2. The clubs must be based on the Gospel, not on accountability. These are not just confessional times. These are times to share how we are or are not understanding and applying the Gospel to our lives.
3. Everyone must be transparent and share both areas of obedience and areas of struggle. Concealing and hedging on our own struggles with indwelling sin prevents an opportunity to grow.
4. Respect those in your club. Nothing curbs transparency and honesty like gossip outside of the club.
5. Commitment requires discipline and consistency, but also a desire to be transformed.
For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body you will live. Romans 8:13
For though we walk in the flesh, we are not waging war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds. We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ, being ready to punish every disobedience, when your obedience is complete. 2 Corinthians 10:3–6